Monday, October 31, 2011

CVS-ing

I am so proud of myself! I am starting to 'coupon' really well!! My sister would be so proud ;)

I went to CVS and purchased something a while back. I got $8 extra bucks back on it (woohoo)!
My goal was to really start the couponing with these 'extra bucks' and not just spend them.

I went back this past week to purchase diapers ($11.99) Skittles ($2.87) and eyeliner (10.99). The particular brand I wanted was doing a special deal, spend at least $10 on their makeup and get $7 back in extra bucks. So, essentially, pay $3 for amazing makeup!

*drum roll, please....*

My grand total was, $27.84. I handed over my $8 in extra bucks, and watched my total drop to $19.84. Then, I received another $7 in extra bucks for my makeup purchase!

This means, I got $27.84 worth of merchandise for $12.84.

Oh. Yes.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

six places

1.) Prarie Camp- This is where it all began. Jaymes & I met here. At a church camp that we had both gone to for years. Funny thing is, we had almost all of the same friends, and had never crossed paths until the summer of 2005! The Lord's timing was absolutely perfect though, and I never would have guessed that the 'jerk hogging the couch' in the Mondich cabin, 3 years later would become my husband! We went back there this summer to watch 2 great friends get married, and the memories were everywhere. This place will always hold a special spot in my heart!

2.) The Riverwalk- I guess technically, this is really where 'it all began'. Jaymes proposed to me here. On a beautiful summer evening, during a local concert's 'break' on a stage, infront of hundreds of people. Some of our closest friends were there with us, for what I thought was just a picnic. Family was there too, but hiding in the background somewhere! I will never forget how this all played out. We're sitting there with the Pannabeckers on our blanket, eating our fried chicken, and all of the sudden the lead band member says, 'Okay, we're gonna take a short break. We have a very special guest here today who wants to say something. A Marine on leave from Okinawa, Japan. Cpl. Heare, come on up!' (or something of that nature, honestly, at this point, I'm getting a LITTLE nervous..) I was thinking, '.. that's my boyfriend..!' Jaymes pulled my hand and said, 'Come on! Follow me!' He ran up to the stage, as I staggered behind, grabbed the microphone, said something to the crowd, and then, (as he took a knee) 'Abigail Ruth, I love you more than anything in this world and I want to share the rest of my life with you.. will you be my wife?' Yes. yes. yes. This is a very special place for us to visit, as it also brings back a very special memory to us.

3.) San Clemente, California- The first place we lived together, after getting married! This wasn't our 'own' place, as we shared it with a fellow Marine that Jaymes worked with, but it was our starting place. We split rent, it was comfy, and cheap. I will never forget this place because well, for lots of reasons, but mainly because this was the start of married life together. We learned a lot in the few short months we stayed there, and made lots of memories we'll always treasure.

4.) Dana Point, California- This was officially, our FIRST place together as just the 2 of us. We fell in love with our tiny 800 something square foot apartment, and stayed there for a year. Beautiful, beautiful town to live in. Shops and restaurants, basically right in our backyard, and the ocean a mile away..! It was very bittersweet to leave there, but, we'll be back to visit someday. ;)

5.) Mission Viejo, California- This was our 2nd place together (really, the 3rd I suppose). We moved here because this town was a little bit cheaper than Dana Point, because we were expecting our first baby, and needed a little more space! We brought Ayden home to this apartment, and he spent his first 2 months of life in it. It was even harder to leave here than it was to leave Dana Point. But we weren't just moving to the next town, we were leaving to go back to Indiana.. very bittersweet move. We will be going back to California someday to show Ayden where he was born, and where mommy & daddy started their life together! And I can't wait!!

6.) Fiesta Tapatia- This one may just seem silly in comparison to the others, but it's our favorite restaurant! Owned by a Mexican family, with outstanding, AND cheap food! We spent lots of time there when we dated, when we were engaged, with family, alone, and with friends. The owners welcome us like we're family everytime! So just a place we go to a lot for good food, and lots of laughs. Tons of memories were made here too!

The vacuum.

This post in mostly so the memory stays fresh in our minds, for Ayden someday. Not terribly exciting, but something we want to remember. :)

Saying, 'Ayden loves the vacuum' is an understatement. My son is obsessed with the vacuum.

When Ayden wakes up in the morning, and from all of his naps, he takes a few short minutes to wake up slowly, and then he's off to the 'vacuum closet' where we stash the vacuum. He points at the closet door, then looks at me ( and he KNOWS I know what he wants). All I have to say is, 'Do you wanna vacuum?!' and he starts laughing, smiling, and semi-hyperventilating until I go over there and pull it out of the closet for him.

And then..

The vacuum dance (which I REALLY need to record). He walks, more like runs in circles around me and the vacuum for a minute or so while I unwind the cord and plug it in, and then reaches for me (which means he's ready for me to start it.) I start it up, then he reaches down, runs to the other side of the room and watches. It's a love-hate relationship with the vacuum, I say.

This happens at least 3x a day. Our house has VERY clean carpet. ha! I'm counting on this being his favorite chore someday.. ;)

Anyhow, this is a cute 'Ayden' memory for us. I needed to blog it!

Stay tuned for lots more updates.

Monday, October 17, 2011

it's been awhile

Hey friends :)

I have a few extra minutes this morning to update on a few brief things (rare occurrence). I'll start by saying I've really, REALLY slacked on blogging lately.. which is a shame because I enjoy it so much! Anyhow, life lately has been a little something like this:

Ayden is now walking. Everywhere! He is having such a blast with it, too!! I've told Jaymes for as long as I can remember that I just knew Ayden would be so much happier once he was able to REALLY move around.. and not to 'toot my own horn'... but I was right ;) It's so neat to watch him go through such a big milestone (a bit heartbreaking to). And don't get me wrong, he still has plenty fussy moments. However, we've both noticed a huge difference in his happiness, which is priceless! He's just perfect!

We've found "the" house.
And we're working our butts off to get it. More news to come on this..

Jaymes is becoming a police officer.
It's official, that's where the Lord is calling him. We are anxious! More news to come on this as well.

I'm switching medication.
I am now on Prozac, instead of Celexa. The Celexa just wasn't working for me, and I had given it a good few months to 'kick in'. I am anxious to see if Prozac is the right medication for me, and I'm praying that it is. It's safe for breastfeeding and pregnancy (up until the 3rd trimester) so it would be ideal. The good thing about this medicine is, like the Celexa (which was already well into my system), it's an SSRI drug. This means I will only need to wait a week or so to determine weather it's going to work for me or not, because I was already on SSRI drugs.. make sense? Anyhow, I'm on day 3, and am noticing tiny improvements.. so here's to hoping!

And my sister is visiting this weekend. holler.
I love that even though she lives all the way in Tennessee, she finds a way to visit every couple of months. Ayden has been blessed with an amazing Aunt! I love that he'll be able to look at pictures when he's older and see that she was there for all the important things in his life. We love you, Aunt Stina!


God is good, all the time.

Thursday, October 6, 2011

life

I will post more tomorrow, but for now I just want to say that God is giving me an incredible peace about where I am in life, and what I need to do to become healthier. I am thankful.

This song, by JJ Heller has been an inspiration to me! Such beautifully written lyrics, with so much truth behind them.. if you haven't heard this song before, look it up and listen to it.


I have unanswered prayers
I have trouble I wish wasn’t there
And I have asked a thousand ways
That you would take my pain away
You would take my pain away

I am trying to understand
How to walk this weary land
Make straight the paths that crooked lie
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine
Oh Lord, before these feet of mine

When my world is shaking, heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave your hands


When you walked upon the earth
You healed the broken, lost and hurt
I know you hate to see me cry
One day you will set all things right
Yeah, one day you will set all things right

When my world is shaking, heaven stands
When my heart is breaking
I never leave your hands


Your hands that shaped the world
Are holding me
They hold me still


I never leave His hands.